What is True Confidence?

Perhaps you've had a dark and depressing 5 days, 5 weeks or even 5 years. You may start to believe that you will never get what you want. Life doesn't seem fair sometimes, does it? We all know the old adage, "Life ain't fair" and sure, we tend to agree, but we all want to find some kind of peace and a little part of joy in our lives. A happiness that is all ours. No one needs to understand it or get it, it's something just for us.

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Many of us give our power away to other people thinking that they are the ones that will bring us this elusive peace. We wait for them to help us, to comfort us, to show us that there is that happiness we've been looking for. But you know what? We all have inside of us everything we already need. That is powerful. YOU HAVE EVERYTHING YOU ALREADY NEED. That love you've been waiting for? You've already got it. That feeling of passion you want to share with someone? You've already got it. That attention you want from that certain someone? You've got it inside you already. This is an empowered way to view oneself and one's life. This is true Pure Power. This is confidence.Having the ability to self-generate love, appreciation, comfort, and joy is true EMPOWERMENT.

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Having the ability to self-generate love, appreciation, comfort, and joy is true EMPOWERMENT. If you don't believe this or you can't feel it already inside you, go talk to a safe person in your life. Notice how you feel when you are with them. If they are a truly safe person, you will feel that power and love and comfort reflecting off of them and onto you. That power and love are actually coming from you, and that person is simply a mirror.

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Brandi Godcharles